Tuesday, December 25, 2012

YGT: The B-Side of Christmas

Today is Christmas and for many it’s a time of great rejoicing. Our society celebrates because it’s a time of family and egg nog, cookies and music, taxable giving and end of year profits. In the church, we rejoice because this is the season our savior was born! However, there is another side of the Christmas story.



Back in the 80's-90's, people played entire records or single songs on cassette tapes (it felt sad saying that). On one side you have a popular song, the one that’s on the radio, the one everyone knows and can sing along with. On the B-side you have a song that’s a little less known and a little less popular. It doesn’t get the airplay at first, but there are plenty of B-side songs that have been redeemable ("I WIll Survive" by Gloria Gaynor and "All the Single Ladies" by Beyonce are two notable examples).


The triumphant narrative of Christmas is the A side, but the massacre at Bethlehem in Matthew 2 is the B side. After Jesus was born, Herod tried to kill him. The verses below tell us that Herod sent out the wise men to locate Jesus and after they didn’t return, Herod decided to kill every boy under the age of two in Bethlehem. Parents are screaming, blood is in the streets as toddlers are being killed. While Jesus is being heralded, children are dying.



In our country today, there is a B-side to all the celebrating and gift-opening. For a community in Conneticut, there has been a massacre. For citizens of major cities like Chicago*, there have been years of massacres. There is drear instead of cheer.  This may be the first Christmas...

  • without a loved one
  • without a job
  • without a home
  • since a divorce
  • since a separation
  • since a diagnosis
  • since the sentencing
  • since the deployment


These losses are what make this the time of year where suicide and depression rates surge.  The charge to us as believers is to remember those who are struggling during this holiday season.  To reach out, make a call, send a card or email to let someone know you are concerned.  As we rejoice, let's remember to be present with those facing the B-side of Christmas.



Lord, thank You for the witness of scripture.  Thank You for Your Son Jesus Christ and the gift of salvation.  For unto us has been born a Savior.  While we cheer Christ's birth, let us consider our brothers and sisters who are on the other side this Christmas.  Those who are sick, imprisoned, in war, or at funerals.  We're grateful for the reminder of the massacre at Bethlehem.  Please comfort the families of all who face this season with loss.  We have hope because of You.  In Christ's name, Amen.


Turning the tape,
j.a.g.







*Click link to see the murder statistics for the city of Chicago.  The city approaches 500 murders as the year ends.  In spite of the national media coverage,  gun restrictions have been a major issue in this country long before now.

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Matthew 2:11-16

11 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.
12 And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.
13 When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up,” he said, “take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.”
14 So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt,
15 where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: “Out of Egypt I called my son.”
16 When Herod realized that he had been outwitted by the Magi, he was furious, and he gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

YGT: Between Two Flowers




We are in the middle of two intense moments.  Last Sunday, we lost Granny, my wife's grandmother who was 86 years old.  She was was a faithful woman who loved her church and her family. She had a limited education yet encouraged her children to succeed in school. She was courageous enough to move north from Alabama as a young woman. She was the eldest daughter, the matriarch of her family, and a Sunday School teacher for over 40 years.  
Granny began as a budding stem and ended as a sturdy oak.


On one side of our story is the loss of our dear Granny, the rose of her family. On the other side, we are mere hours away from welcoming our daughter Jaelle into this world. A new seed will be born into our family tomorrow. As much as we received from Granny, we wish for Jaelle. She is our hope of a rose to come...


So between grieving and rejoicing, we sit in this moment.  It is the place in between mourning and dancing (Psalm 30:11 below).  Now we wait for another flower; a future seed waiting to be welcomed and blossom. Granny, please shine on her as a guardian and friend. Please help her flourish and stand courageously. We trust that she will rise beautifully because of Your great legacy.




Lord, thank You for the gift of Granny and Jaelle. We believe that in a way, you have given us a person in our family to replace another. We are grateful that there is residue from Granny's flowerbed that will be revealed in both of our daughters. We look forward to a day where we stand among all the flowers that have passed before us and before You, our great Gardener. In Christ's name, Amen.


Digging,

j.a.g.




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Psalm 30:11You turned my wailing into dancing;
you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,